If your dog has just died at home, take a breath first. There is nothing that needs to happen in the next five minutes except you being able to breathe.
This guide walks through what actually needs to happen, in order, so you don't have to figure it out alone while you're in shock.
First, Confirm What You're Seeing
It sounds strange to say, but before anything else, take a moment to be sure. Look for breathing, check for a heartbeat by placing a hand gently on the left side of the chest, and see if there's any response to touch. If there's any doubt at all, call an emergency vet immediately, even if it's the middle of the night. Some situations that look like death are not, and a vet can tell you in minutes.
Whatever you're feeling right now, however you're reacting, is normal. There is no correct way to feel in this moment.
What to Do in the First Hour
If your dog passed at home without a vet present, call your vet's office or an emergency animal hospital. Many can confirm the passing over the phone or guide you on next steps.
Move your dog gently onto a blanket or towel if you're able to. You do not have to rush this. There is no timeline that requires you to act immediately.
If other pets are in the home, some owners choose to let them see and sniff their companion. Many believe this helps other animals understand what happened, though there's no requirement to do this.
Decide who you want with you right now. You do not have to handle this alone unless that is truly what you want.
What to Do With Your Dog's Body
Because decomposition begins quickly, especially in Florida's heat, most families make aftercare arrangements within 24 hours. Your options generally include:
Your Main Options
- In-home pickup by a pet aftercare service, so you never have to transport your dog yourself
- Bringing your dog to your veterinarian, who can arrange cremation on your behalf
- Home burial, if permitted in your area and on your property
- A pet cemetery, for families who want a permanent physical resting place
If you're not sure which option is right for you, that's completely normal too. Most aftercare services, including ours, are happy to talk through what each option actually looks like before you commit to anything.
Deciding on Keepsakes
Many families want something physical to hold onto: a paw print, a small clipping of fur, or an urn. You don't have to decide this in the first hour. Most services, including ours, can walk you through these options once you're ready, not before.
You Don't Have to Do This Perfectly
There is no version of this that you're doing wrong. Whatever order you handle things in, whoever you call first, however long you wait before making decisions: all of it is okay. If you need someone to walk through this with you in real time, we're here, and we come to you.
If you're not sure where to start, reach out to us any time, day or night.
You may also find Why Losing a Pet Hurts as Much as Losing a Person helpful as you process this.
If you're going through this right now, you don't have to figure it out alone. Reach out to us any time, or call us directly at (813) 510-6648. We come to you, with no rush and no pressure.